I also don't seek to have a relationship with "anarchists" or examine how pathetic the milieu is and why.
I agree. The only reason I still linger on anarchist message boards is because I can almost endlessly amuse myself with polemics. That, and anarchist principals are thoroughly burnt into my mind (so exercising my intellectual curiosities at @ sites seems like the most convenient place to do so). Therefore, I also can't say I have any interest in forming relationships with people simply because they're anarchists. My compulsive engagement in intellectual debate has made me fearful of any idea, on my part, of joining 'the milieu'. I'm more comfortable placing myself nowhere (i.e., trying to survive in a socio-cultural context inhospitable to my skepticism and intellectual interests) than suffocating myself in somewhere (i.e., a small political milieu). Social retardation appears to be an imminent threat if I were to abandon my distance from other anarchists.
I've also noted how the majority of discussions that take place on anarchist message boards is just an endless repetition of self-pity. Like a medical-psychiatric subject in a padded room banging their skull against the limits of their existence. This annoying tic anarchists constantly demonstrate steals away time for, and the quality of, other (possible or already present) discourse. It's probably reasonable on their part, but it's annoying insofar as it presents itself as an obstacle to those, like myself, who have no tangible relation to the affairs and events unfolding in the milieu itself. I don't care if 'the movement' is a joke because not only am I disinterested in movement building but I'm also not a part of that movement - either in it's manifestation as a marginalized milieu or a recruiting mechanism. I could choose from several subcultures to meld myself into, but I refuse all of them because I always get a bad taste in my mouth whenever I get too close. The @ milieu is no different. The excitement I felt when I read the first Vengeance has since dissipated (it validated my abrupt, intellectual abandonment of leftism). Presently, I'm as wary of, and indifferent to, the platitudes of anti-subculturalists (Vengeance, 'insurrectionists', etc.) as I am to their quarry. They're both suspicious...
On the topic of insurrectionary anarchism:
I suppose I have the same intellectual nostalgia for I@ as Aragorn! does for green anarchism. For instance, the hypothesis that anarchists and the like are not demonstrably more functional or specialized in the task of producing revolution or struggle as anyone else has largely been broken down into a composite of everyman's militancy and shallow attempts at splicing anarchist values into daily conflicts. This is exemplified by, say, the 'anti-broke on broke crime' campaign invoked by Modesto Anarcho or the 'insurrectionist' presence at the Pittsburgh G20. The original hypothesis, while not pristine in it's analysis, could have been taken through much more desirable routes of thought.
The analysis of institutional power has been abandoned in favor of the convenience of class struggle narratives - ranging from anything like the reactionary subculturalism of Class War to more nuanced approaches inflected with tones borrowed from obscure ultra-left theory (I'm in the latter... I think). Antagonism towards the Left is way too quiet (but not as alien as it appeared to be when I first dealt my hand in anarchist commentary about a year and a half ago - which should be noted, IMO). The critique of political organizations was lost in translation during the skirmishes between organizationalists and clandestinists. Etc. The only aspect of I@ still completely obvious is the attempt to consolidate communist and anarchist praxes. Post-situ theory has made this task more bearable for some.
And wtf is insurrectionism? It's certainly not some mutated vernacular.
Anyways... I've never even thought of the french current as being a post-situ tendency. I've only recently been exposed to the north american pro/post-situ... uh, 'milieu'. Like Bob Black's ranting critique of Vaneigem or Bill Brown's zaniness (i.e., his constant posting of really obscure shit on @news and news updates on the Tarnac 9). Seems even more miserable than the general anarchist milieu (at least the north american rendition of it). The wake left by the hype surrounding TCI, Tiqqun, etc., turned me off to it (even if I was caught up in it for a period of time). Some of Claire Fontaine's theses caught my eye, though.